Interpersonal Relationships: Handling Conflict

Start with clarity, not blame.

When something rubs you the wrong way, resist the urge to point fingers. Instead of “You never pull your weight,” try: “I’ve noticed our team has been covering X more often lately—can we talk about how to balance that better?”

Keep it private and direct.

Talking behind someone’s back doesn’t solve problems—it multiplies them. Skip the gossip. If you’ve got an issue with someone, speak with them one-on-one if possible. Choose the right time and place—when emotions aren’t running high and there’s space to talk calmly.

Stick to the facts.

Keep the conversation focused on behavior and outcomes, not personalities. Avoid using words like “always” or “never.” They put people on the defensive and shut the conversation down before it even starts.

Listen as much as you speak.

When we’re upset, it’s easy to focus only on what we need to say. But listening—really listening—opens the door for solutions. Let the other person explain their perspective. Ask questions. Show that you’re trying to understand, not just win.

Know when to bring in help.

Not every conflict can be solved between two people. If things get stuck, bring in a neutral third party—a supervisor, HR, or leadership. This isn’t “tattling.” It’s protecting the workplace from long-term friction in interpersonal relationships that drags everyone down.

Something to remember in interpersonal relationships –

Just because we work with different departments—or even for different companies—doesn’t mean we’re on opposing sides. At the end of the day, we’re all working toward success. When we handle conflict with honesty, respect, and maturity, we protect our culture, our relationships, and our results.

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